Monday, June 14, 2010

Crite Mak Buyong...

Crite semasa memboyot ni...lain orang lain versi...ada yang crite macam dalam 7th heaven...most of them la crite macam dalam 7th heaven...best syiok...fantastico...bla...bla..bla...tapi kenapa most people choose to ignore the hardship in pregnancy?...ok...setuju...being pregnant is one amazing experience...ape taknye....to have another life growing inside you...but to reach the full term is not a comfortable thing to go thru...mula-mula...the morning sickness...the mood swings...the like & dislike to things (& people...heee) around...the body ache....the cramps...the tiredness...the lack of restful sleep....the weight gain....enduring the baby's kicks & punches...(tho this is quite entertaining at daytime...hahaha)...then comes the big push day and the pain that comes with it....jadi husband and anak-anak sekalian....appreciate la your wife and mother the best you can because we have to go thru all those to give you zuriat/to bring you to this world....

mebe it is true that being pregnant changed you...hahaha....tetiba i feel so domesticated...tetiba suka masak-masak...especially baking....jadi tak jadi tu lain crite...tapi kene bake...resultnya..macam gambar-gambar di bawah....cubaan untuk buat chocolate chip cookies....yang tak brape menjadi...

then kek lapis bumi yang kira menjadi jugak la...

then pumpkin kek yang tak brape menjadi...

then kek lapis haw flakes yang boleh tahan menjadi...

then kek gula hangus yang tak brape menjadi...well....jadi....tapi lubang-lubang kat kek tu kurang...and yang terbaru kek hitam manis yang terlebih manis tapi tak hitam walaupun nama hitam manis hahahaha....

Hari tu ada hati nak try buat cupcakes...sms mintak resipi dari member dan dan tu jugak..petang tu pegi cari bahantapi apakan daya...tak semua bahannya dijumpai...krimwell ape ke jadah tu tak dapat dikesan pulak....terus buat panggilan MAY DAY kat member tu...sebab kesian agaknya...dia pun menyudikan diri untuk buatkan cupcakes untuk kami ni...hahaha...next day dapat la makan cupcake...niat nak bawak sampai rumah skali tak balik dari ofis lagi pun...aku punye cupcake dah diselesaikan oleh ku yum yum...kebetulan masa lunch, rombongan cik kiah pegi merayap ke Pavilion dan aku tapau itik panggang dari food court dia...abis cupcake...sambung ngan itik panggang....perhhhggg...kenyang sampai ke malam beb hahahaha....walau bagaimanapun....cupcakes...kau tetap akan ku cuba buat jugak bila bahan-bahannya cukup...

selain itu...rasa nak mengubah-ubahan susunan dalam rumah pun membuak-buak tapi apakan daya....tak larat nak mengangkat-angkat....so kene tunggu hubby balik baru mintak dia buatkan atau KIV until lepas bersalin nanti....

banyak projek aku tertangguh sebab pergerakan yang terhad...hahaha....ada halangan di hadapan la beb...so payah jugak nak terbongkok-bongkok...terover bongkok nanti tuan kat dalam bagi penendang dia...terduduk aku dibuatnya...heee...hubby aku usik aku...supaya lain kali rasa kasian la kat org yang gemuk-gemuk sebab mereka pun terpaksa melalui kesukaran macam tu setiap hari....heee...dushhh....hint yang aku kene menguruskan badan lepas bersalin le tuh....humph!!....

masalah ngan hari weekend lain-lain di state yang berbeza adalah...time aku keje...hubby weekend...time aku weekend...dia dah kene balik ke tempat kerja....sebab buhsan punya pasal la aku sibukkan diri memasak...menjahit....bertkang mana yang masih terlarat....hari tu ada la projek pasang screen TV ke dinding...dah lama jugak beli besi untuk gantung ke dinding tu tapi hubby aku tak bersemangat nak pasang...dan aku pun rasa dah tak larat nak drill dinding tu...1st attempt pasang yang kat hall hari tu...hubby aku berjaya melukakan kedua-dua belah tangannya ok...isk...memang tangan batu betol la...hahaha...takpe...aku tak kisah pun buat kerja-kerja ni...in fact aku sangat suka bertukang...so aku jugak la yang menyelesaikan kerja tu....hahaha...bangga beb....

2nd attemp ni...aku dah tak larat la...so aku mintak tolong abang aku yang kebetulan ada kat rumah aku....heee....siap bersukat ukur....sangat confident yang ketinggian TV kat dinding tu sesuai....last-last bile dah siap....loh!!!...nape jadi TV untuk orang pendek??.....nak bukak balik dah malas...so sampai hari ni la TV tu tetap di kedudukan rendah...nanti lah...bile aku dah abis berpantang nanti aku adjust balik sebab aku pun tak puas hati jugak tengok...hahahaha.....

semalam aku siapkan curtain bilik yang lama dah tertangguh....memang perasan pendek sikit tapi ingat la cukup panjang untuk sampai bawah dari ketinggian tingkap....bile dah siap pasang....mak aiiii....singkat puuuulaaaak....haduish....stressnye.....nak bukak dah penat...lagi pun kene gi beli kain lain untuk ditambah kat bawah curtain tu bagi panjang sikit...dah jadi pesen lain pulak...tapi itu part 2 la nanti bila aku rajin pegi kedai kain...nak pegi sorang-sorang pun tak brape brani sebab nak berdiri lama-lama perut ku rasa berat semacam dan tulang buntut ku macam ditekan-tekan je...tak brani aku merayap-rayap sorang...kut-kut terbranak kat tengah jalan pulak nanti...haru oooo....hahaha...mudah-mudahan ada hubby di sisi ketika nak pegi bersalin..amin....

tempat bersalin.....mula-mula tu pening gak nak pikir nak bersalin kat mane...cek kat blog orang lain...rata-rata kata hospital kerajaan menakutkan...so...lepas mendapat persetujuan Mr Money Bag (hubby tersayang le...) aku pun mula buat ante natal cek up kat KPJ Selangor....cek bulan-bulan adalah dalam RM110 - RM220 macam tu depends ngan procedure yang kene buat bulan tu....mental memang dah set nak bersalin kat situ la...sekali harung la kononnya...tapi semuanya berubah selepas wife member aku bersalin kat situ dan kene bayar dalam RM12k.....mak aiii....itu baru bersalin beb...belom kos membesarkan anak tu...haduih....gigil makcik dengar....aku ada la servey pakej dia....paling mahal pun kalu bersalin normal dalam RM3k....tapi yang tak ku tau...kalu bersalin secara C-Section...takde pakej...dan kalu kene time weekend dan after office hours, charge dia berganda ooo...mak aii....giler betol la....kecut perut aku....aku ingat sediakan dalam RM3k je....(punye la naif nye aku pasal nih)...nasib baik Allah tolong bukakan mataku ni...syukur...so secepat kilat aku revise balik plan aku dan survey hospital-hospital lain....kalu kos dalam RM5k to RM7k tu kira ok lagi...but RM12k is just too much la beb...survey punye survey aku come accross Full Paying Patient Scheme kat hospital Putrajaya...itu rupenya private wing hospital tu...yang offer service ala-ala private...ada O & G specialist assigned to us...bed pun confirm ada time nak bersalin dan harga pun tak la gila mahal macam kat hospital private....wife member pernah bersalin kat private wing tu...dia komen sangat berbaloi...service pun bagus....dengan bayaran RM3100 untuk bersalin C-Section...not bad eh...maka terus la jari ku ringan untuk call hospital Putrajaya untuk set appointment ngan Dr. Hamidah (yg kat blog org tu kata dia ok la kan....) ok la Doc tu...hehehe....tak la sebest Doc Siti kat KPJ yang macam mak-mak je dia layan aku...tapi Doc Hamidah tu pun ok jugak...di KPJ dia pakai scan ultra sound yang gambar baby pun samar-samar...tapi kat HPJ...pakai ultra sound dan 3 D beb....ni gambarnya....

ni la rupa baby boy aku yang sangat aktif bersenam kat dalam tu...takpe...nanti ada la kawan aku untuk bersenam tiap hari ye baby.....aku cadang nak bagi nama dia Azam Qaid Cotter bin Azhar....Azam bapak dia bagi...Qaid maksudnya commander...cadangan aku sebab kecik lagi tapi dia ada attitude sendiri heee.....Cotter...supaya kasen masen dia di belah aku kenal dia in future...heee...biar tali persaudaraan tu tetap kuat....

dia sekarang dah masuk 8 bulan...bulan depan dah nak keluar...aku sangat-sangat nervous ni sebab most of the time aku sorang-sorang kat rumah....macam-macam persoalan timbul...sempatkah aku nak sampai hospital kalau sorang-sorang...kalu call kawan-kawan...sempatkah mereka tiba ke rumah atau aku sendiri yang akan drive sendiri menyerah diri ke hospital sebelum bantuan tiba...hahaha....apa-apa pun aku tawakal je la....mohon segalanya berjalan dengan baik dan aku dan baby selamat....inshaallah.....so baby...kalu nak kluar...bagi warning yang secukupnya ok....dan aku kene siapkan beg untuk dibawa time emergency nanti...huhuhu.....

aduish....kene penyepak pulak....shhhh....diam-diam....mommy tengah kat opis ni..hehehe....

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Year 2010...and expecting a new family member...

Well...well..well...hello...hello..hello....it's been ages since my last entry...takde blog...gatei nak berblog...dah ade..maleh plak nak update...hahaha...

Anyway...tahun ni...wont be much activities...time to slow down and add in new member into our small family....heee....we welcome this year with the news that we are finally going to be a mom and dad...this week is the 20th week of gestation and the baby is due on 26 Julai 2010....last 2 weeks we went for check up and found out that we are going to have a baby boy.....wooohooo...he was kicking very actively inside that his 'bird' showed as clear as the day!...each time i look at the image on the monitor...tears of being a proud mom always seems to roll down quite freely heee...

One thing bothers me tho...i am not sure if other husbands find accompanying their wives in the gynea room...something to be avoided, feared or enjoyed...but my husband declined when i invited him to come along into the room to see our baby...anyway..last night i caught a bit of Phua Chu Kang's series that showed he was terrified when his wife requested him to join her for her check up...he fainted after looking at their baby on the monitor....it was funny then but afterwards it got me thinking...could it be that my husband is having the same cold feet as Chu Kang was getting....hahahaha....men!!...
Before the nausea and unpleasant feeling started to kick in...i managed to join my husband and the company's sportsclub went cycling expedition from Pantai Sepat, Kuantan to Taman Negeri Endau Rompin from 30/12/2009 to 1/1/2010....what a great way to spend the new year...hahaha...better than being stuck in the jam packed new year celebration locations or sit infront of the TV watching everyone around the world counting down the seconds to new year...i have not been up to transfering pic from my camera to here yet...if and when i finally get around doin it...i'll put in more pics from the expedition....so that's that on new year...
Later..1st Feb 2010....on Federal Territory Day...a public holiday for us...so we decided to go for a mini picnic at Sg Gabai...or 'Gaban' as we mistakenly said it...hahaha....it's a nice place to hang out if you don't have anywhere else to go....so...the 4 of us carrying food that can feed 10 person....went off to Sg Gabai....our driver...he was so confident that we didn't bother to ask if he knew how to get there....then...more or less half an hour later...the truth came out...he asked us...'kito dok mano doh nih?'...hadooiiish.....so much for his high confidence level when our journey started earlier...hmmph!!...then we spent another hour going around Kajang to find the correct exit...hahaha....well at least now we know where to turn the next time we plan to go for another dip in the waterfall...
We left Sg Gabai around 3pm....we managed to grab a couple of durian along the way...hahaha...then someone suggested we have our durian session at Pullman Lakeside....hehehe.... later...our group got bigger...we called in back up...hahaha...our frens from Cyberjaya who were unlucky enough to work that day...came to meet us at Pullman...and finish off the remaining food and durian....hahaha...i told you that the food we packed enough to feed 10 person heee....and glad that it all didn't go to waste....
And now...due to the cramps and pain around my belly that i seem to be having quite frequently...i am following my doc's advice to have plenty of rest..no more strenuous activities until the baby is safely delivered...problem is...i am not used to stay idle and not doing my usual activities...so now instead of being fully rested...i find myself going down the lane of depression....sign.....